onsdag den 8. februar 2012

Life quality in general pt. 3

When it comes to meeting new people, it's not about trying to impress each other. Many people think that the only way to impress someone is to look good and make good first hand impressions.
This subject have been on my mind for a long time and in my mind, in my daily routine, I don't try to impress people. Just be yourself, take things as they come, and don't try to impress everyone. If they actually like you, it will not be because you impressed them the first time you met, it's because you are who you are.
Sometime you might meet a woman you really like and because you really like, you brain can't function in the right way. You go down mentally.

But here's some advise so that you don't do anything stupid.
Any conversation, any relationship, any interaction with the opposite sex, is all about frequency. There will always be someone that recognizes your mindset and that you'll have a connection with. There is always someone that has that same frequency as you. And the best way to find that special someone is just to be as honest as possible. And if it happens that you get nervous, hell, tell her that you're nervous and it took you ten minutes just to gather enough courage to walk over here and talk to her. 9 out of ten times, the opposite sex recognizes that honesty, that courage to despite of being nervous as hell, you walked over there and tried to start a conversation. Maybe, you'll get lucky and find someone on that exact same frequency, that you can have a substantial conversation with. You never know.

What I'm really trying to say is, you should spent more time talking and less time thinking. Don't prepare yourself for the conversation, just go over there and be yourself.